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FANTASY MAKERS
I don't know if any of our readers share this or a similar memory, but I remember quite well my early 80s adolescence and the peculiar feeling (a mixture of perplexity, unease and plain boredom) which filled me every time the dressing rooms in the high school gym hosted another conversation about our class' girls. My male classmates usually turned the conversation into an unpleasant amount of boasting and nervous laughter, punctuated by cunts, boobs, dicks and fucks.
How could I have told them that I did not want to see the girls naked, but to see them dressed (and in quite particular ways at that)? How could I mention that their eagerly expected shag meant nothing to me? How could I say that, if I were to choose, I prefered to check the limits of the girls' juvenile cruelty. to which extent they wanted to be powerful or powerless?
In that time, I often wondered about my sexual future and figured it dark and secretive, wandering lonely in search of my twisted pleasures without a twin soul to confide in. I could hardly imagine that I would get to have not only a couple with which to share and live my fantasies, but also a group of like-minded friends with whom to meet, go out, conversate and experience. I put my precious couple down to sincerity and good fortune. I put the great group of friends down to Domina Zara's many assets. She is the soul in this millennium Fetish Cafe.
Who could have told us not so long ago that we would meet, organize parties, play, discuss fantasies and live them out? Who could have said there would be a Fetish Cafe to go to, shows to enjoy, friendly people to get to know...? People who dress in latex and carry whips, people who love and suffer in their particular way, but also people with their everyday lives, their mundane hobbies and petty problems, not as sex-centered and obsessed as the general public like to think.
We are not a circus. We do not pursue the more difficult yet or do things to impress the bland. Quite on the contrary, current popular images are on our side, as declared by so many fetish photographers who are even not supposed to be turned on by all this. Recent media and advertising developments also favour this view. What not long ago was sick and sleazy (leather, PVC, knee-high boots, corsets, tattoos, piercings...) takes over catwalks, lad mags and prime-time talk shows.
On one side, some public who join in for the same reason as they get into gore or tacky 60s Spanish films: to experience something unusually 'strong' or weird. On the other, a fashion, 'chic' market which acknowledges the aesthetic strength of our practices but not its sexual value. And we in the middle, knowing more and more what we like and how to get it, defining the values of a community of people with shared feelings.
What are these values? Mutual consent and respect for other people's likes, no matter how strange they may appear to us. Nobody is despised or insulted here. Nobody is raped, assaulted or kidnapped. The mechanisms of sexual harassment in an office are often more 'perverted' than the discussion of limits prior to a SM scene.
It all comes from deep and sincere introspection. It's all about everyone admitting their fantasy and making it possible to become reality, always within the aforementioned values.
We are in a good moment. Domina Zara leads an enthusiastic group of people who usually act in discreet privacy, but these days will entertain anybody with an aesthetic curiosity or the personal option for some sexual variety.
Enjoy the company, talk to your friends, make questions, join the unforbidden passion which reflects our restless souls' deepest images.
Welcome to fantasy. Welcome to Fetish Cafe.
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